
Too Soon to Sleep Over?
Should you spend the night when dating someone new?

When We’re Kissing, Something’s Missing
I don’t want to be shallow but how do I say that it prevents me from going further physically?

Intimate Chit Chat
I just would like to get to know him and what he likes/dislikes in bed.

I Told Him It’s NOT Funny!
After sex, my boyfriend always makes the same joke.

He Likes Big Bellies (and he cannot lie)
I just started going out with a guy from a dating app. He has a lot of great qualities but one thing is striking me as a red flag.

Three Times the Fun?
My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We have a great relationship and a very fun and healthy sex life with each other. We're also very open about our sexual desires.

It’s Like Jalapeños Down There!
No matter how sweet or how much of a shitbag the person I'm sleeping with is, I feel so uncomfortable telling them if something hurts.
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