Ask Em and Lil 5/13/21 Ask Em and Lil 5/13/21

Well-Ventilated Dates!

He isn’t ready for the indoor restaurant scene just yet.

Ask Em and Lil 5/7/21 Ask Em and Lil 5/7/21

Too Soon to Sleep Over?

Should you spend the night when dating someone new?

Ask Em and Lil 2/17/21 Ask Em and Lil 2/17/21

When We’re Kissing, Something’s Missing

I don’t want to be shallow but how do I say that it prevents me from going further physically?

Ask Em and Lil 1/3/21 Ask Em and Lil 1/3/21

Em and Lil’s Post-Breakup Playlist

Any recommendations for movies, music or even food to help me get through a break up?

Ask Em and Lil 12/28/20 Ask Em and Lil 12/28/20

Intimate Chit Chat

I just would like to get to know him and what he likes/dislikes in bed.

Ask Em and Lil 12/21/20 Ask Em and Lil 12/21/20

Matchmaker, Matchmaker…

I saw her as a woman I could marry. Then she called it off— through the matchmaker.

Ask Em and Lil 12/14/20 Ask Em and Lil 12/14/20

From Networking to Dating

I asked the guy I like to meet me for coffee to discuss his job.

Ask Em and Lil 11/30/20 Ask Em and Lil 11/30/20

No Response!

I told him I wanted a serious relationship…

Ask Em and Lil 10/5/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/5/20

I Like Both Guys Equally!

It was definitely not made explicit, but there was hinting that romance would occur during the visit.

Ask Em and Lil 9/21/20 Ask Em and Lil 9/21/20

He Likes Big Bellies (and he cannot lie)

I just started going out with a guy from a dating app. He has a lot of great qualities but one thing is striking me as a red flag.

Ask Em and Lil 5/25/20 Ask Em and Lil 5/25/20

Is His Living Situation a Deal Breaker?

We both want something serious, and I believe that we may start a real relationship when this is over (whenever that may be). However, while we are alike in many ways, there is one thing that is troubling me…

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