Ask Em and Lil 6/14/21 Ask Em and Lil 6/14/21

My Friends are Enemies!

They’re competitive because they both own dance companies.

Ask Em and Lil 1/17/21 Ask Em and Lil 1/17/21

My Friend is a Negative Nancy!

My friend likes to wallow. I can't tell how much truth is beneath his pessimistic jokes.

Ask Em and Lil 12/7/20 Ask Em and Lil 12/7/20

To Roommate or not to Roommate?

If I get a roommate, will it be harder to find a significant other?

Ask Em and Lil 11/9/20 Ask Em and Lil 11/9/20

My Friends Hang Out Without Me!

Am I being too possessive?

Ask Em and Lil 10/12/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/12/20

Em and Lil… Ask Each Other!

Get to know Em and Lil, and send us your questions!

Ask Em and Lil 9/14/20 Ask Em and Lil 9/14/20

Should I Ask if we’re More than Friends?

About once a year every year we flirt and maybe become romantic, and then we continue as friends, never discussing.

Ask Em and Lil 8/31/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/31/20

I Can’t Balance my Social Life!

I really, really like my new boyfriend and I don’t want to push him away by being with my friends.

Ask Em and Lil 8/24/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/24/20

An Abundance of Covid Cooties

I feel guilty about seeing groups of friends and family in person, but I also feel guilty about saying no to people.

Ask Em and Lil 8/17/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/17/20

Should I be his Rebound?

I recently got very drunk with my best friend and he tried to make a move.

Ask Em and Lil 7/27/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/27/20

I Just Want to Fix my Friends!

It has always been one of my major downfalls that I care too much about my friends, and subsequently tend to judge life choices. My friends are the most amazing people in the world— but I have never liked anyone that they date.

Ask Em and Lil 7/13/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/13/20

Are We One of THOSE Couples?

My girlfriend and I have gotten to know each other's friends, and we all get along. When we hang out with friends we usually both go.

Ask Em and Lil 7/6/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/6/20

I Kissed. Should I Tell?

About four years ago, long before meeting my boyfriend, I made out with one of my friends. Do I need to tell my boyfriend about this history or is it ok to let bygones be bygones?

Ask Em and Lil 6/3/20 Ask Em and Lil 6/3/20

Debating Politics with Pals

My friend gets quiet during debates, or she'll say one thing and then clam up if anyone questions or disagrees with her.

Ask Em and Lil 5/18/20 Ask Em and Lil 5/18/20

Moving on from a Friend Breakup

I worry that the lingering discomfort from the falling-out will cause me to act more awkward and insecure in friendships going forward, potentially endangering those relationships.

Ask Em and Lil 3/23/20 Ask Em and Lil 3/23/20

Growing Apart from Old Friends

There's a group of friends of mine that have been dear friends since high school, and even back to elementary school with some of them.

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