My Friends are Enemies!
They’re competitive because they both own dance companies.
Cleaning the Closet
I can’t get rid of clothes that don’t fit me anymore!
Wine? Not.
I need a fix to helps me wind down at night.
Well-Ventilated Dates!
He isn’t ready for the indoor restaurant scene just yet.
Too Soon to Sleep Over?
Should you spend the night when dating someone new?
Interfaith Heartbreak
Should I have asked him to convert?
Say the Magic Word!
Sometimes I feel like I’m her servant.
The Need to Read
I haven’t finished a single book during quarantine.
I Need a Procrastination Cure!
how do I have fun with my creative pursuits while also taking them seriously?
When We’re Kissing, Something’s Missing
I don’t want to be shallow but how do I say that it prevents me from going further physically?
My Friend is a Negative Nancy!
My friend likes to wallow. I can't tell how much truth is beneath his pessimistic jokes.
Can I Convince them Climate Change is Real?
I think it is important to convert ‘climate deniers.’ But…how?!
Em and Lil’s Post-Breakup Playlist
Any recommendations for movies, music or even food to help me get through a break up?
Intimate Chit Chat
I just would like to get to know him and what he likes/dislikes in bed.
Matchmaker, Matchmaker…
I saw her as a woman I could marry. Then she called it off— through the matchmaker.
From Networking to Dating
I asked the guy I like to meet me for coffee to discuss his job.
To Roommate or not to Roommate?
If I get a roommate, will it be harder to find a significant other?
No Response!
I told him I wanted a serious relationship…
My Boyfriend is Letting me FREEZE!
As it becomes colder in New England the thermostat war has begun.
He Won’t Attach!
He texts me, but doesn’t call. What’s more important— actions or words?
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